All I ask for in terms of payment is that if one of my openers helps you land a girl, you think of me when you hook up with her (but not, like, in a gay way or anything, be cool).Not every girl calls for the same opener, so I’ve grouped them based on different situations. Using a Flirty Opener when the girl’s profile clearly calls for an Edgy Opener could lead to disaster. If you don’t distinguish yourself from the masses, you probably won’t get a response. The first sentence needs to grab her attention, and every sentence after that needs to hold it.Missing this element is one of the (many) reasons why messages like “hey” fail so hard.We know, because we’ve used them for our clients here at Virtual Dating Assistants.But before you go crazy with ctrl-C & ctrl-V, one word of warning – as much as we believe in the power of copy and paste messages, POF dislikes them.Most any woman is going to say she’s got a sense of adventure; it’s an online dating universal, right up there with “I love travel”.If you happen to notice you’ve got a hobby in common with a woman who intrigues you, pounce on it.
High quality women get a TON of messages every day.
Not only does this message showcase your sexy sense of humor, it does one more thing she’ll appreciate.
It gives her a chance to talk about herself – and scientists have found that makes people happy.
As time goes on, you can amass a collection of icebreakers written around hobbies you’d like to share with your ideal match.
Use them as appropriate, like this message for women who enjoy skiing: And this message for all those travel-loving women out there: These 5 POF openers will get responses.